The Power of the Pussy

Lesson 1. Emotions: There is a Need to Control Them

It is perceived that women are emotional beings. This goes on to show that they think with their hearts. There is nothing wrong with being emotional or being fragile while you are sentimental. There is, instead, a necessity to control your emotions. Men know about the emotional aspect of women. Therefore, they cheat on them but still manage to continue with the relationship by emotionally manipulating them. This is the reason women need to learn about the art of hiding one’s emotions. Men do it every now and then: women can do it too.

How do you realize when you are being emotionally guided? If you ever thought: “He has been very rude to me for the past few days,” and then responded with: “Maybe he is going through a hard time,” you are reacting with your heart. In other words, you are responding emotionally. No matter how bad a person’s circumstances have been, they have no right to be rude to you for something you haven’t done. There will be times when you will feel hurt because the person is going far from you. But it is a ‘good riddance’. Do not keep toxic people around your circle. Don’t give in to the pain, or hurt, otherwise, you will never be able to control your emotions. Even though they do not work on the same level, your emotional wounds are similar to your physical wounds. You don’t mess around with a wound on your elbow. Instead, you give it some time to heal. That is what you are supposed to do with your emotions. Give them some time to heal, and don’t mess with them. Keep yourself busy by taking up some new hobby, watching some new series, or simply going out with your friends. 

You have one thing to learn, and that is to not care about a person who doesn’t care for you. If a guy likes you, you don’t need to constantly remind him of your presence. He will come up to you and talk about his feelings eventually. Remember that the guy might take some time before he comes and opens up to you. Therefore, you should learn the art of being patient. If the guy doesn’t show any interest, it is a sign that he would have either used you or kept you close just to show society his relationship status. In order to avoid all of this, don’t approach him. Let him approach you. Test him and his commitment, before you open up yourself to him. 

Lesson 2. Sex? No.

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